Archive for June, 2010

Happy birthday, Elliott!

Wednesday, June 30th, 2010

There is more to say, and photos to post, but that will happen tomorrow… maybe.

Very nearly 1 year old…

Tuesday, June 29th, 2010

It’s amazing to look back on the past year. Every moment was excruciating as it happened, of course. And the year passed insanely quickly in retrospect. We’re not sure that we’re ever going to pay off our sleep debt.

The awesome things about Elliott’s first year, looking back:

1. Every age so far has been the best.

2. He keeps getting cuter.

3. He makes us better people.

4. Even the tiniest of things in our world is miraculous again.

E… ready to run!

Tuesday, June 29th, 2010

As long as he’s holding on to something…

E pushes LV from R Kaye on Vimeo.

E pushes LV part deux from R Kaye on Vimeo.

Elliott’s Piano Lounge

Tuesday, June 29th, 2010

baby + piano from R Kaye on Vimeo.

We have standing… sort of

Tuesday, June 8th, 2010

M has some important home improvement work to do this week (touching up peeling paint, prepping our deck for baby safety, etc), so E is going to Miss Linda’s house this week, our grandmotherly neighborhood babysitter. When Mama went to pick him up this evening, he was playing with Christina, a very adorable–and tiny–16-month-old. As Mama was chatting with Miss Linda, she watched E let go of the table he was balancing on and stand for a good 10 seconds before he realized what was going on and held back on.

Who knows how long it’ll be before he does it when he realizes what is going on… but we predict we’ll have walking by 13 months.

In other news, today is the one-year anniversary of the stillbirth of one of Mama’s friend’s son at 37 weeks’ gestation. His due date and Elliott’s were almost the same. Over the past year, it’s been truly amazing the amount of love and gratitude little Jasper has brought into this world in which he never took a breath, but really heartbreaking just the same. I look at Elliott and hear him laugh and give him kisses and thank the Universe that we won the cosmic lottery. Not only did we hit the genetic jackpot with his brains and beauty, but on a more basic level, he is happy, healthy and alive. We should never forget what a gift that is. The brains and beauty are gravy, really.

So, thank you, little Jasper, for reminding us to savor every moment. I would give almost anything to not have learned this lesson and instead to be watching videos of you laughing and cruising, but if it had to be this way, I’m glad that I experienced the loving guidance and support of your mama during our pregnancies and the lesson that your loss brings into our lives.

Mama recently watched the commencement address that Rachel Maddow gave to the women in this year’s graduating class at Smith College. She was hilarious and brilliant, but her central point is that we should not live each day as though it is our last… we should live each day doing things we would want to brag about to our grandchildren–we should live our lives doing things that when the inevitable reality of death comes, our lives are worth dying for.

I won’t claim that you were able to fulfill this promise, little Jasper. But you have sure helped me to remember what is important and what, when my time comes, will have been worth dying for.

Sending much love to your family on this day.

E’s new tricks

Monday, June 7th, 2010

These are two of the tricks E learned in May–his 11th month.

Nooooo from R Kaye on Vimeo.

Cruisin’ … from R Kaye on Vimeo.

Baby toss

Sunday, June 6th, 2010

baby tossing from R Kaye on Vimeo.

Other kids are hilarious…

Sunday, June 6th, 2010

From the 20s/30s pool party at Phil’s…

Pool partyin’ from R Kaye on Vimeo.

11 months

Friday, June 4th, 2010

The last months have been intense, fast, and awesome. Elliott has learned how to crawl, cruise, clap, wave, give high-fives, reliably say “Mama” and “Dada,” point at what he wants and at things we ask him to identify, and so many other things!

In the last 4 weeks, he has gotten 4 teeth… Mama isn’t complaining since having the first 10 months of nursing be tooth-free is nothing to scoff at. :)

Last month, we celebrated Mother’s Day, which seems, to Mama, to have turned out to be a really wrong Hallmark holiday. In its original version, it was about the women of the world demanding an end to war everywhere. Now, it preferences mothers over other women and makes women who have not borne children and those whose children died feel bad about themselves. Wrong wrong wrong.

We did have a really awesome family get-together at Auntie A’s house, though. So I guess good can come of it. :)

We did have a very lovely visit with Daddy’s family for the holiday… it’s definitely not an entirely bad celebration. :)

Below are some photos from the last month or so.

Splish splash

Friday, June 4th, 2010

Splish splash from R Kaye on Vimeo.



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